If your partner passes away, how should you continue with life? Should you live forever in the memories or try to embrace life again? This is a seemingly "simple" question that may touch on the depths of many people's hearts. And Vanessa Bryant, the widow of Kobe Bryant, has given an answer that the whole world can see. Five years have allowed her to gradually come out of her grief and enter into a new love. This time, her life has once again been focused on, interpreted, and even criticized by some. Some people bless her, while others say she is "too cold-blooded," questioning whether she really still remembers the good of Kobe. But the question is, do we really have the right to judge the choices in a complex life? Vanessa's story is as complicated as a multi-threaded script. On one side, she has the maternal duty of raising four daughters, on the other side, there are fans' emotional expectations for the identity of "Kobe's widow," and there are also various speculations from others about her new romance. As many people say, she can no longer be separated from the words "Kobe" in this life, but from being a partner to an ordinary woman, she also has to find reasons to live for herself. Perhaps, these reasons are not what everyone thinks they are. In the eyes of almost everyone, Kobe was a basketball legend, and Vanessa was the woman who stood behind him to support him. But this role "behind the halo" did not allow her to escape…